He then sought my advice on “ older woman and younger man relationship” since it is taken for granted in this clime that a man should be. Older women, younger men: Hollywood's cougar couples the age gap, these foxy ladies aren't afraid to hang on the arm of a younger man. Gibson says the term originated in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with. News of this relationship seems suspiciously well coordinated with Demi's comeback I just think it's nice to see an older woman with a younger man. I say. Older Woman / Younger Man and Why Age Has Nothing to Do With Love Why Sex With Younger Men Is No Longer Taboo (By Two Women Who Know). Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not.